Couples Therapy
Couples and Relationship Counselling
You might be asking yourself since when did the compliments turn into criticisms. Or, you might want to learn ways to improve your current relationship. Many couples do not attend therapy because of the fear of being judged or fear their partner will try to get the therapist on their side. This is something you don’t have to worry with our couples' therapists. Our relationship therapists do not judge or decide who is right or wrong. We remain neutral and not to take sides. Instead, our approach is to educate and guide you towards practicing new skills so you can improve your relationship.
Each partner is treated with respect and without judgement.
In couples therapy you will learn new ways of talking to each other. You and your partner will say goodbye to criticisms and defensiveness and embrace curiosity and openness. You will learn to be each other’s friends, support, and companion. Talking about your relationship to a third party, is never easy. As such, we take an active role in our session to ensure there is calm and both of you feel heard. We want you to leave the session with a different experience that what you are used to.
With our online couples therapy services you can get support with dating, love, relationships/marital issues, infidelity, PTSD, parenting, and more. Since not one conflict or relationship is the same, our techniques and approaches are suited to your needs. We truly care about our couples and we 100% are rooting for your relationship.
In couples counselling, you may meet with the licensed therapist as a couple and individually. The therapist will want to know you as a person and also as a couple.
Who we work with?
Young couples or youthful pairs
Early-stages couples
Married or common-in-law couples
Interracial couples
Arranged marriages
2SLGBTQ+ identifying couples
Non-monogamy/polyamory couples
Couples with one or both partners who has a diagnoses
You will learn new ways of communicating more effectively and learn a variety of techniques to solve problems
How can you tell your relationship is doomed?
Research has successfully predict divorce/ end of a relationship by HOW you and your partner fight. These are through the 4 horseman of the apocalypse:
criticism
contempt
defensiveness
stonewalling
In our couples therapy, we follow the Gottman Method, which will help you recognize the 4 horseman and teach you the skills to eliminate them. You will be able to go beyond just managing conflicts, but being able to restore the friendship and intimacy in the relationship.
How Couples Counselling Can Help
✓ Learning how to manage conflicts and repair after conflicts
✓ Building a strong foundation and friendship with each other
✓ Dealing with external stresses and influences, such as in-laws, jobs, children, parenting…
✓ Increasing positive emotions within the relationship and being comfortable talking to each other
✓ Understanding and honouring each others values and differences
✓ Determining future of the relationship, creating shared meanings, customs, rituals, and traditions
✓ Improving communication skills and feel heard by each other
✓ Increasing sense of connectedness, intimacy, and trust
✓ Dealing and recovering from betrayal, infidelity, grief, and trauma
And more...
How We Work With Couples
The Gottman Method to Couples Therapy
Discernment Counselling
Couples therapy for Ontarians offered virtually. Online Marriage counselling in Mississauga, Burlington, Oakville, Hamilton, and online.